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A recent article in the American Psychological Association
Monitor (October 2006, p. 34) reported on ongoing research by Dr.
Sonja Lyubomirsky, a psychologist at University of California -
Riverside. Her research suggests that increasing long-term
happiness is possible -- and that it can be done through
conscious efforts, such as counting your blessings, performing
kind acts and reinterpreting situations in a more positive light.
In one study she asked psychology undergraduates (never-ending
source of human guinea pigs for psychology research) to make a
weekly gratitude list -- five things they were grateful for.
Those who did this rated themselves significantly happier than
before, at the end of the 6-week study. "It’s hard to feel envy,
greed, or bitterness when you’re grateful," Lyubomirsky
explained.
Another study asked participants to perform acts of kindness.
The group which did five acts of kindness per day experienced a
significant increase in well-being. Dr. Lyubomirsky observed
that "kindness can jump-start a whole cascade of positive social
consequences. Helping others leads people to like you, to
appreciate you and to offer gratitude."
These studies report what many have always "known" -- that doing
good deeds, being grateful for blessings received, and choosing
to look on the bright side of a situation lead to lasting
happiness and well-being.
A significant aspect of this research is the fact that the
benefits occurred whether the subjects wanted to do the
activities or not. Simply choosing to be grateful, choosing to
do kind acts can lead to increased well-being!
More resources are listed in The Guide to Self-Help Books. Relevant sections of the Guide include Self-Esteem, Positive Psychology, and Success and Personal Effectiveness.
David Yarian, Ph.D. is the creator of The Guide to Self-Help
Books, http://www.Books4SelfHelp.com and co-author of Self-Help
Central, an ezine to help you build a better life with self-help
resources. He is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Certified
Sex Therapist in private practice in Nashville, TN. He writes self-help articles on stress relief.
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